EMBRACING LOVING OURSEVLES IN 2024: A FOUNDATION FOR IMPACTING OUR COMMUNITY

As we stand on the threshold of a new year, 2024, let us take a moment to reflect on the sermon I gave on September 10th: “Love your Neighbor as Yourself.” In our pursuit of positively impacting our community in the coming year, let us hold onto the essence of that sermon – the understanding that to love our neighbors, we must first love ourselves.

Jesus, when asked what is the greatest commandment replies that the greatest commandment is to love the Lord with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and finishes with “The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.” This truth underscores the reality that self-love will be the base of how we love others, urging us to lay a foundation of love within ourselves and to understand how God loves us to fulfill the greater commandment of unity.

10 Practices to Reflect on as we begin 2024.

1. Self-Reflection The path to self-love begins with self-reflection, a sacred introspection that unveils the complexities of our being. Psalm 139:14 (ESV) whispers to us, “I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.” We need to embrace the wonderful creation that we are, understanding that self-reflection is the key to building a whole relationship with ourselves, God and others.

2. Practice Self-Compassion In our journey, let us build self-compassion, reflecting the divine compassion that continually embraces us. Lamentations 3:22-23 (ESV) echoes, “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” As we extend this compassion to ourselves, we create a space for love, acceptance, and compassion to extend to others.

3. Set Healthy Boundaries Proverbs 4:23 (ESV) guides us, “Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.” Loving ourselves means setting healthy boundaries, respecting ourselves as being made in the image of God and as one who carries the love of God within us. It is an act of self-respect and a foundation for the unity we seek.

4. Prioritize Self-Care Our bodies, temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20, ESV), call for diligent care. In the whirlwind of life, prioritize self-care – rest, nutrition, exercise, and activities that bring joy. For it is in nurturing ourselves that we can radiate love and unity to others.

5. Positive Self-Talk Ephesians 4:29 (ESV) counsels, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” Apply this wisdom to your self-talk, becoming your own cheerleader. Positive self-talk is reminding ourselves who we are in the eyes of God; we are loved and called the children of God.

6. Surround Yourself with Positivity Proverbs 13:20 (ESV) whispers, “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.” In our journey of self-love, choose companions who uplift and support, fostering an atmosphere of positivity. Let love be the force that unites us, transcending differences and fostering a collective spirit.

7. Seek Help if Needed Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (ESV) reminds us of the strength in community, “Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!” Seeking help is an act of self-love, acknowledging the interconnectedness that binds us all. Let us remember that seeking help is not a sign of weakness, but of strength. God has provided many people in our communities who are trained to help us in our time of need.

8. Forgiveness Colossians 3:13 (ESV) calls us to forgive, “bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.” Extend this forgiveness to yourself, releasing the weight of past mistakes. Let God’s grace wash over you, fostering personal growth and unity.

9. Embrace Your Uniqueness In 1 Corinthians 12:14 (ESV), we learn, “For the body does not consist of one member but of many.” Embrace your uniqueness, for it adds a distinctive note to the symphony of our community. Your individuality enriches our collective experience, fostering unity in diversity. Let us remember that we are all different and that is how God has created us and intended for us to be.

10. Practice Mindfulness Philippians 4:8 (ESV) guides our thoughts, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” Practice mindfulness that aligns with these virtues, anchoring us in the present moment and fostering a deep connection with ourselves and others.

Remember self-love is an ongoing journey, an evolution of the heart. Embrace growth and cherish each step. As we prioritize our own well-being and cultivate a deeper relationship with ourselves and God, we lay the foundation for impacting our community with the transformative power of love, compassion, and unity in the year 2024 and beyond. May the spirit of love bind us together, transcending our differences and fostering a community where every heart beats in harmony

ADVENT

In the midst of the twinkling lights, festive tunes, and the hustle of the holiday season, there’s a sacred invitation that beckons us to slow down, to linger a little longer in the season of Advent before rushing to the grand crescendo of Christmas. It’s a call to focus on the foundations of our faith: hope, peace, joy, and love, elements that form a counter Kingdom to the empires of this world.

A Counter Kingdom: Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love Hope (Psalm 33:20): “Our soul waits for the Lord; he is our help and our shield.” In the season of Advent, our hope is not in fleeting circumstances or momentary achievements. This verse from Psalm 33 reminds us that our ultimate hope lies in patiently waiting for the Lord, who is our constant help and protective shield. It encourages us to trust in God’s timing and providence.

Peace (Isaiah 26:3): “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you because he trusts in you.” Amidst the chaos of the world, Advent calls us to find true peace by fixing our minds on God. Isaiah 26:3 assures us that a mind anchored in trust and reliance on God experiences perfect peace. This peace goes beyond worldly understanding and serves as a cornerstone in our Advent journey.

Joy (Psalm 16:11): “You make known to me the path of life; in your presence, there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” As we anticipate the arrival of Christ, Psalm 16:11 directs our focus to the profound joy found in God’s presence. Advent joy is not circumstantial but emanates from our connection with the Divine. It encourages us to seek the path of life that leads to everlasting joy in God’s company.

Love (1 Corinthians 16:14): “Let all that you do be done in love.” In the spirit of Advent, 1 Corinthians 16:14 serves as a guiding principle. It challenges us to infuse every action, every interaction, with love. This kind of love is transformative, reflecting the sacrificial and unconditional love exemplified by Christ.

Navigating the “Me First” Empires Matthew 16:26: “For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul?” Amidst the clamor of “me first” empires, Matthew 16:26 is a sobering reminder of the eternal perspective. It prompts us to question the true value of worldly gain if it comes at the expense of our spiritual well-being. Advent invites us to reassess our priorities in light of Christ’s teachings.

**A Challenge for the Journey Ahead **Matthew 6:19-20: “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven…”

As we embark on a new church calendar, Matthew 6:19-20 issues a challenge. It urges us to redirect our focus from building personal empires to investing in eternal treasures. Advent beckons us to consider the lasting impact of our actions and encourages a shift towards building God’s Kingdom in our spheres of influence.

May these scriptures guide us in embracing the true spirit of Advent and navigating a path that leads us away from the fleeting empires of the world toward the enduring Kingdom of God.

May this Advent season be a time of reflection, anticipation, and a deliberate turning away from the clamor of the world to embrace the quiet, transformative power of Christ’s Kingdom. Blessings on our Advent journey together.

BRUSSELS SPROUT AND A GRATEFUL HEART

This week we gather around our Thanksgiving tables, the aroma of roasted turkey, cranberry sauce, and pumpkin pie will fill the air. It’s a time-honored tradition to reflect on the blessings in our lives and express gratitude for the abundance we enjoy. Let’s explore the significance of perspective in our expressions of gratitude this Thanksgiving.

Thanksgiving is a celebration of gratitude, but what we are thankful for can vary widely from person to person. As I eagerly anticipate the presence of Brussels sprout at the Thanksgiving table, my children may not share the same enthusiasm. In this divergence of preferences lies a profound lesson about perspective – our individual experiences shape what we hold dear.

In Corinthians 1:4, the apostle Paul reminds us, “I always thank my God for you because of his grace given you in Christ Jesus.” This verse serves as a gentle nudge to look beyond our personal preferences and appreciate the unique blessings each person brings into our lives. Whether it’s the warmth of friendship, the support of community, or the simple joy of shared moments, there is value in recognizing and celebrating diversity in our expressions of gratitude.

As we navigate the various perspectives around the Thanksgiving table, it’s crucial to cultivate a non-judgmental spirit. Just as my children may not share my appreciation for Brussels sprout, others may find gratitude in unexpected places. Our differences are a testament to the richness of the human experience, and judging someone for what they are thankful for undermines the spirit of unity that Thanksgiving represents.

The book of Colossians (3:15) encourages us to “let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” This scripture emphasizes the importance of harmony within our diverse community and reminds us to be thankful for the unique contributions each person makes to the collective tapestry of our lives.

While the Thanksgiving feast is a tangible expression of gratitude, it’s essential to recognize that our deepest thankfulness extends beyond material possessions. True abundance lies in the relationships we cultivate and the love we share. Proverbs 17:17 beautifully captures this sentiment: “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.” Our community and friendships are integral to our well-being, and expressing gratitude for these bonds enhances the richness of our lives.

This Thanksgiving, let us embrace the diversity of our gratitude. Just as the Thanksgiving table accommodates a variety of tastes and preferences, our hearts can welcome a multitude of expressions of thankfulness. As we gather with friends and family, let’s remember the wisdom of Corinthians and Colossians, acknowledging the unique blessings each person brings into our lives. In doing so, we cultivate a spirit of unity, recognizing that our community and friendships are central to the tapestry of our shared journey. May this Thanksgiving be a celebration of diverse thanksgivings, a reflection of the abundant love and grace that unites us all.

THE FOUR “T”S OF GIVING: LESSONS FROM A CHILD’S STICKER

In our recent Children’s Messages at Church, we’ve been delving into the concept of giving, focusing on what we’ve come to call the four “T"s: Time, Talent, Treasure, and Trust. It’s been an eye-opening journey, reminding us that the true essence of giving goes beyond our financial contributions.

As adults, we often associate giving with monetary offerings, whether it’s through online donations or placing our gifts in the blessings box. But here’s the beauty of our faith community - sometimes, the most profound lessons come from the youngest members among us.

Recently, a child at our church brought a simple but powerful treasure to our congregation: a box of stickers. These stickers were her pride and joy, a source of happiness in her young life. Little did I know, her act of sharing these stickers would be a profound lesson for me.

When we talk about sharing our treasures, we shouldn’t limit ourselves to the contents of our wallets. Instead, we should consider those things that bring immense joy to our hearts. This young girl approached me and asked if I wanted a sticker. Rather than choosing one myself, I asked if she would pick out a sticker that reminded her of me.

The sticker she chose depicted a wizard riding a rainbow - a whimsical and magical scene. That sticker now finds its place not only on my pulpit to remind me of the power of sharing ones treasures with another, but in a special corner of my heart. This seemingly small act of sharing a sticker, something that brought her immense joy, had a profound impact on me. It was a reminder that our treasures aren’t just simply material possessions; they are the things that light up our souls.

In the Bible, it’s said, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matthew 6:21). This experience with the sticker reminds us of the profound truth in those words. Our hearts are naturally drawn to the things that bring us joy, and when we share those treasures with our faith community, we strengthen the bonds that unite us.

So, I leave you with a question to ponder: What brings you joy? What are the treasures in your life, big or small, that you can share with your faith community? Just as a child’s stickers brought joy to my heart, your unique treasures can have a meaningful impact on our church family.

As we continue to explore the four “T"s of giving, let us remember that sometimes, the most valuable lessons come from the youngest among us, and the treasures we share go far beyond the contents of our wallets. They touch the very essence of our hearts and the soul of our community.

RESPONDING TO HATE AND EXTREMISM: FOSTERING INCLUCUSIVE CHRISTIAN COMMUNITIES

Christianity is a deeply personal and meaningful faith that has the potential to unite people from all walks of life. It provides solace, guidance, and a sense of belonging to countless individuals and communities worldwide. However, what happens when the Christian faith, which should exemplify love, grace, diversity, and compassion, is co-opted by hate, racism, extreme radicalism, and exclusionary beliefs? How do Christians respond to such hijacking of our faith? With love, protection, and the creation of safe spaces while embracing diversity and upholding the core value of Christianity, loving your neighbor as yourself.

The first step in addressing this challenge is recognizing its existence within Christianity. The Apostle Paul writes in Romans 12:9-10 (NIV): “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” When elements of hate and extremism infiltrate a Christian community, it not only goes against the core teachings of Christ but also divides the body of believers.

Evil can associated with the dehumanizing of those who are different from us. When we strip away the humanity of others, we create fertile ground for hatred and division. This can be particularly damaging when it is done under the guise of religious beliefs, as it distorts the very essence of spirituality, faith and who we at our core, the image of God.

In many faith traditions, including Christianity, there is a belief that all human beings are created in the image of God. This fundamental belief recognizes the inherent worth and dignity of every individual, regardless of their race, ethnicity, gender, or any other characteristic that may differentiate them from others. However, when individuals or groups within a religious community start to view certain people as less than human, the result is a dehumanizing effect that can lead to prejudice, discrimination, and even violence.

Dehumanization often stems from ignorance, fear, or a sense of superiority. When we fail to see the humanity in others, we are more likely to perpetuate stereotypes, harbor biases, and treat them with contempt. This can manifest in overt acts of hatred, such as physical violence or verbal abuse, as well as in more subtle ways, such as exclusion or marginalization.

One of the dangers of dehumanization is its ability to spread and propagate hate. Once we start to see others as less than human, it becomes easier to justify mistreatment, oppression, and even genocide. History is replete with examples of how dehumanization has fueled atrocities, from the Holocaust to the Rwandan genocide.

As Christians, it is our responsibility to resist and combat dehumanization in all its forms. We are called to love our neighbors as ourselves, valuing the inherent worth and dignity of every human being. This means actively challenging the narratives and beliefs that promote dehumanization within our communities. It requires us to educate ourselves about different cultures, backgrounds, and experiences, so that we can foster understanding, empathy, and compassion.

Creating inclusive Christian communities starts with recognizing and acknowledging the presence of dehumanization within our own faith tradition. We must be willing to confront our own biases and prejudices, and to actively work towards dismantling structures and systems that reinforce inequality and exclusion. This involves listening to the stories and experiences of those who have been marginalized, amplifying their voices, and advocating for justice and equality.

Furthermore, we must prioritize the creation of safe spaces within our Christian communities where individuals can feel welcomed and accepted, regardless of their differences. This means actively challenging any form of hate speech and providing support for those who have been targeted.

Christian communities should be sanctuaries of safety and support for all individuals, as stated in Galatians 3:28 (NIV): “There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” It’s essential to protect vulnerable members who may be targets of hate or discrimination. It is imperative that we establish safe environments where marginalized and oppressed individuals can seek refuge from their oppressors and abusers. In these spaces, they can witness and experience the love of God and others. By doing so, we can respond to hate and extremism and cultivate inclusive Christian communities.

To counteract the influence of extremists and exclusionary beliefs, it’s crucial to create safe spaces within your Christian community where diversity of thought and belief is not only tolerated but celebrated. Encourage open discussions and provide educational opportunities to help members gain a more nuanced understanding of their faith. Proverbs 27:17 (NIV) reminds us, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

The Christian faith is inherently diverse in thought and belief. Just as the body has many parts, as mentioned in 1 Corinthians 12:12 (NIV), “so it is with Christ.” Embrace this diversity as a strength rather than a weakness. Encourage members to learn from each other’s perspectives and experiences, fostering an environment of growth and mutual respect.

Education is a powerful tool in countering extremism and hate. Host workshops, seminars, and guest speakers who can provide insights into the historical, cultural, and theological aspects of Christianity. This can help dispel misunderstandings and promote a more inclusive worldview. In Hosea 4:6 (NIV), we are reminded, “My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge.”

However, it’s essential to draw a line against hatred, racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, bigotry, and other forms of dehumanization. In Ephesians 5:11 (NIV), we are instructed, “Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness but rather expose them.” Every person, regardless of their background or beliefs, is made in the divine image and deserving of love, respect, and justice.

Christian communities have a sacred duty to become safe places for those who are dehumanized, especially by those who use their faith as a weapon of hate. It’s incumbent upon us to stand up against any form of discrimination or prejudice that seeks to diminish the worth and dignity of any individual. Jesus himself demonstrated compassion and inclusion when he welcomed the marginalized and condemned self-righteousness.

Christianity holds the potential to be a powerful force for good, promoting love, tolerance, and compassion. When hate, extremism, and exclusionary beliefs threaten to divide Christian communities, it is our responsibility to respond with love, protection, and the creation of safe spaces for all. The beauty of the Christian faith lies in its ability to embrace diversity while drawing a clear line against hatred and discrimination. By doing so, we fulfill our highest calling as Christians and exemplify the transformative power of Christ’s love. As members of the United Church of Christ, we are called to be bold and walk in the rich tradition of our faith, speaking out against injustice and hatred. We have embraced the concept of Extravagant Welcome, which invites all people, regardless of their differences, into our community with open arms.

Being part of the United Church of Christ compels us to take a stand against hate and extremism. We cannot remain silent or passive when our Christian values are co-opted and distorted to promote exclusion and discrimination. Instead, we must be courageous and vocal in our opposition to these harmful ideologies.

The core teachings of Christianity, rooted in love, grace, diversity, and compassion, guide us in our response. We are reminded that “love must be sincere,” and we are called to “honor one another above ourselves.” These teachings remind us of the importance of valuing the inherent worth and dignity of every individual, regardless of their background or beliefs.

To be bold in our tradition means actively challenging the narratives and beliefs that promote dehumanization within our Christian communities. We must confront our own biases and prejudices, and work towards dismantling systems that perpetuate inequality and exclusion. This requires a commitment to education, empathy, and understanding.

Creating safe spaces within our Christian communities is essential in fostering inclusivity. We must ensure that everyone feels welcomed and accepted, regardless of their differences. This means establishing clear anti-discrimination policies and mechanisms for reporting and addressing incidents of hate. We must protect those who are vulnerable to being targeted and provide support for those who have experienced discrimination.

Embracing diversity within our Christian communities is another way we can walk boldly in our tradition. We must celebrate the various perspectives and experiences that each member brings, recognizing that our faith is inherently diverse in thought and belief. By doing so, we create an environment of growth, mutual respect, and love.

Education is a powerful tool in countering extremism and hate. Hosting workshops, seminars, and inviting guest speakers can help dispel misunderstandings and promote a more inclusive worldview. By equipping ourselves with knowledge, we can better understand the historical, cultural, and theological aspects of our faith, and challenge misconceptions.

However, we must draw a clear line against hatred and dehumanization. There is no place for racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, or any form of bigotry within our Christian communities. To fulfill our highest calling as Christians, we must stand firm in our commitment to love, grace, and compassion, welcoming all into the fold of God’s inclusive love.

LIVING IN HARMONY - ESSENTIAL TO CHRISTIAN LIFE

In a world filled with so much division and conflict, it can be refreshing to find harmony. However, harmony does not mean always agreeing with each other or believing the same things. Instead, it is rooted in loving each other, showing compassion, and giving up the need to always be right for the greater good. As Christians, living in harmony is not just a nice idea, but a testament to the love and grace of God in our lives.

In Romans 14:1-12, the Apostle Paul addresses the issue of differences in belief and practice among believers. He emphasizes the need for mutual acceptance and understanding, reminding us that we are not here to judge one another. It is a powerful reminder that our differences should not divide us but rather be celebrated as a reflection of the beautiful diversity within the body of Christ.

Living in harmony requires a certain level of humility and selflessness. It means putting the needs and feelings of others before our own ego. It is not about constantly trying to prove ourselves right but rather seeking to understand and love one another despite our differences. This is easier said than done, especially in a world that often encourages us to assert ourselves and defend our beliefs at all costs.

However, when we choose to live in harmony, we exemplify what it means to truly embrace diversity of thought and practice. We show the world that being in unity does not mean being in uniformity. It is not about conforming to a set of rules or beliefs, but rather about living in love and respect for one another.

Living in harmony does not mean compromising our deeply held convictions. Instead, it means recognizing that we are all on a unique spiritual journey, and our perspectives may differ. It means understanding that our interpretations of Scripture and our personal convictions may vary, but that does not make anyone more or less valuable or faithful than another.

When we live in harmony, we create an environment where individuals can freely express their thoughts, ask questions, and grow in their faith. It is an invitation to engage in healthy dialogue, where different viewpoints can be shared without fear of judgement or condemnation. It is an opportunity to learn from one another and find common ground, thus enriching our understanding of God and His ways.

Living in harmony not only benefits those within the Christian community but also those outside of it. It is a powerful witness to the love and grace of God, showing the world that we are not bound by our differences but rather united in our love for one another and for God

LOVE OURSELVES BEFORE OUR NEIGHBOR

The audio from our livestream on Sunday phased in and out. Here is blog with the overview of Sunday’s Sermon. Our text was found in Romans 13:8-14.

The Apsostle Paul emphasizes the importance of loving our neighbor as we love ourselves, thus fulfilling the law. This principle highlights the crucial role that loving ourselves first plays in our journey towards nurturing healthy interpersonal relationships. However, the significance of loving ourselves first is often overlooked, despite it being a critical step in our ability to love others effectively.

The first step in our ability to love our neighbor is understanding our own importance, our own worth, and our own capacity to receive love - from God and from others. Without this comprehension, our ability to love others as God intends is compromised. Thus, it is clear that the initial step to loving others is to first love ourselves.

So, how do we foster this self-love? Here are some steps to consider:

1. Self-Reflection: The journey to self-love begins with self-awareness. Take time to understand yourself better. Reflect on your strengths, weaknesses, and past experiences. This introspection allows you to appreciate your unique qualities and experiences, which is the first step in cultivating self-love.

2. Practice Self-Compassion: Be as kind and forgiving to yourself as you would be to a friend facing challenges. Treat your own mistakes and setbacks with compassion. This practice of self-compassion helps you to accept yourself, flaws and all, which is a critical aspect of self-love.

3. Set Healthy Boundaries: Learn to say no when necessary and protect your physical and emotional well-being. Setting boundaries is a way of respecting and valuing yourself. It’s a clear indication of self-love and self-respect.

4. Prioritize Self-Care: Make self-care a regular part of your routine. This includes getting enough rest, eating well, exercising, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Prioritizing self-care is a tangible way to show love to yourself.

5. Positive Self-Talk: Challenge negative self-talk and replace it with positive affirmations. Be your own biggest cheerleader, not your harshest critic. Positive self-talk can significantly boost your self-esteem and self-love.

6. Surround Yourself with Positivity: Spend time with people who uplift and support you. Eliminate or minimize toxic relationships that drain your energy and self-esteem. Surrounding yourself with positivity fosters an environment conducive to self-love.

7. Seek Help if Needed: If you’re struggling with self-love or facing deeper emotional issues, consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor who can help you work through these challenges. Seeking help when needed is a sign of strength and self-love.

8. Forgiveness: Forgive yourself for past mistakes and let go of grudges. Holding onto resentment or guilt can hinder self-love. Forgiveness is a powerful tool in the journey towards self-love.

9. Embrace Your Uniqueness: Celebrate your individuality and the things that make you special. Embracing your uniqueness can boost self-esteem and self-love.

10. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness meditation can help you stay present, reduce self-criticism, and increase self-acceptance. Mindfulness is a powerful practice that can enhance self-love.

Remember, learning to love oneself is an ongoing process, and it’s okay to have ups and downs. Be patient with yourself and keep working on cultivating a healthier relationship with yourself over time. As you grow in self-love, you will find that your ability to love others deepens and becomes more authentic. After all, we can only give what we have within us. The journey to self-love is a journey worth embarking on, for it not only enriches our lives but also enhances our ability to love others.

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STRENGTHENING THE CORE OF CHURCH COMMUNITY: THE FOUR CORNERSTONES OF TIME, TALENT, TREASURE, AND TRUST

A church community surpasses the basic notion of a congregation; it symbolizes a lively, active collective of believers, united by faith and driven by a common mission. Similar to the significance of a solid base for a building, there exist fundamental cornerstones that uphold the spiritual and communal well-being of a faith community. These cornerstones are Time, Talent, Treasure, and Trust. Let’s explore each of these components and their pivotal role in promoting growth, unity, and the manifestation of God’s presence within the congregation.

1. Time: The Offering of Presence

Time, a resource we all have, can be a potent instrument when used effectively within a faith community. Dedicating time to our church goes beyond mere attendance at services. It entails active involvement in various activities and meaningful interaction with fellow members. It signifies being physically and emotionally present for worship, fellowship, and service.

Investing time in our faith community is a reflection of our commitment to nurturing our relationship with God and each other. It is through shared instances of prayer, study, and fellowship that we genuinely experience the essence of a church family. Time enables us to establish bonds of friendship, support, and encouragement, which are essential for navigating life together.

2. Talent: Utilizing Individual Abilities for Collective Benefit

Each of us is gifted with unique talents and skills by God. Within a church community, these talents can be harnessed to serve a common purpose. Whether it’s singing in the choir, leading a youth group, providing professional expertise, or simply extending a helping hand, our talents become vital tools for building and enhancing the faith community.

The beauty of talents lies in their diversity. When we unite, each contributing our unique abilities, we cultivate an environment of growth and inclusivity. Every talent, regardless of its scale, has a place and purpose within the church body. It is through the collective use of our talents that we cater to the various needs of our community and effectively spread the message of God’s love.

3. Treasure: The Essence of Generosity

Treasure encompasses more than just financial resources, although monetary contributions are undoubtedly essential for the practical needs of a church. Treasure also refers to the state of our hearts—our generosity, compassion, and readiness to give back to the community. Financial contributions, whether large or small, are concrete ways to support the church’s mission and ministries.

However, treasure is more than just money; it encapsulates the spirit of giving. It’s about willingly and joyfully sharing our blessings and resources. Generosity extends beyond what we have to spare; it reflects our commitment to the well-being of the faith community. Whether we tithe, contribute to a special project, or provide for those in need, our treasure becomes a symbol of our shared purpose and our dedication to the mission of Christ.

4. Trust: The Unseen Bond

Trust, although intangible, is a vital cornerstone of a strong church community. It’s nurtured through transparency, respect, and open communication. Trust creates a safe environment where members can share their joys and challenges, confident that they will be heard and supported. It’s the assurance that we can rely on each other, fostering a sense of unity that is crucial to any thriving church.

In a community built on trust, individuals feel valued and respected, and their contributions, no matter their size, are acknowledged and appreciated. Trust motivates us to openly share our spiritual journeys, doubts, and triumphs. It is through trust that we become the hands and feet of Christ, serving one another and the world with compassion and grace.

We all join our faith communities at different stages of life’s journey, and our ability to invest in these areas may fluctuate. However, the key factor is the choice to invest. When we invest in our faith community, we actively participate in shaping its future. We bring unity and glimpses of God’s presence to the forefront.

In conclusion, our church community is more than just a physical structure; it is a dynamic, living organism—a family of believers. By embracing Time, Talent, Treasure, and Trust, we solidify the foundation of our church and create a welcoming space where all can experience God’s boundless love. Collectively, these cornerstones enable us to build a resilient and vibrant church community that reflects God’s love and grace, and through which we can light up the world.

UNITY AND LOVE: EPHESIANS 4

At its core, Ephesians 4 calls for unity within the body of Christ. However, it doesn’t stop there; it challenges us to broaden our horizons. It urges the local congregation to stand united, encourages all churches to unite, and extends its plea to the entire global community of believers, from Belding to the farthest corners of the world.

The apostle Paul, in his timeless wisdom, speaks of maturity within the body, emphasizing that God has blessed the church with leaders and teachers to equip it for ministry. This is more than just individual growth; it’s about the collective nurturing of the body of Christ.

Speaking the Truth in Love: The Essence of Unity

At the heart of this unity lies an unwavering truth: Christ’s love knows no bounds. It’s a love without conditions, without exceptions. We are summoned to love as God loves - unconditionally. After all, God is love, and expressing this divine love to one another is the cornerstone of unity. It is the adhesive that binds us, constructing a healthy and harmonious church community.

But, and this is crucial, speaking the truth in love does not grant us a license to cloak hatred and evil behind a distorted concept of truth. In our pursuit of truth, we must be vigilant, discerning, and compassionate. We must remember that truth and love are not mutually exclusive; they should be inseparable companions on our spiritual journey.

Truth and Love: A Delicate Balance

It is essential to understand that truth, when wielded carelessly or maliciously, can be a dangerous weapon. This is why Ephesians 4 calls us to speak the truth in love, emphasizing the need for both elements to coexist harmoniously.

Speaking the truth in love means that we must confront wrongdoing and falsehood, but we must do so with compassion, empathy, and the genuine desire for reconciliation. It requires us to address issues not with condemnation but with a sincere commitment to healing and growth.

The Danger of Distorted Truth

When truth is used as a guise for hatred or to further personal agendas, it can tear communities apart. In our present world, where misinformation and manipulation often masquerade as truth, Christians must be vigilant. We must discern the difference between genuine truth and distorted versions of it that only serve to divide and harm.

As followers of Christ, we are called to emulate His character, and Jesus was not just a purveyor of truth but also the embodiment of love. When we fail to balance truth with love, we risk alienating others, perpetuating division, and causing emotional and spiritual harm.

A Prayer for Truth and Love

As we actively pursue unity and strive to reflect God’s likeness through righteousness and holiness, let us remain mindful of these guiding principles. Let us be kind, empathetic, loving, understanding, embracing, and forgiving to one another. In doing so, we uphold the unity of the body of Christ, finding our greatest strength in unity.

May this transformative message resonate not only within the walls of our local congregation but also echo throughout Belding, Grand Rapids, Michigan, the United States, North America, and the farthest reaches of the world. In kindness, we discover the essence of Christ’s message, and in unity, we find the true power of the body of Christ, always remembering that truth without love is a dangerous path.

WHAT DOES THE LORD REQUIRE?

What does the Lord require of you? This is a question that many Christians ask themselves as they seek to live faithfully and obediently to God. But sometimes, we may get confused or overwhelmed by the many expectations and commands that we find in the Bible or hear from others. How can we know what God really wants from us? Let us explore what the prophet Micah said about God’s requirements for his people, and how they apply to us today. Remember that there is something to be said about keeping it simple and to the point. To do justice: God cares deeply about how we treat others, especially those who are oppressed, marginalized, or vulnerable. He wants us to stand up for what is right and fair, and to defend the cause of the poor and the needy. Doing justice means not only avoiding injustice, but also actively working to correct it and prevent it. For example, we can do justice by speaking out against racism, sexism, or any form of discrimination or abuse; by volunteering or donating to organizations that fight for human rights and dignity; by being honest and ethical in our dealings with others; and by voting for leaders who uphold justice and peace. To love kindness: God also cares about how we relate to others, especially those who are different from us or disagree with us. He wants us to show kindness, compassion, mercy, and grace to everyone we encounter. Loving kindness means not only avoiding hatred, anger, or violence, but also actively seeking to bless and serve others. For example, we can love kindness by being friendly and courteous to strangers; by forgiving and reconciling with those who hurt us; by helping and encouraging those who are struggling or suffering; and by sharing the gospel and the love of Christ with others.

To walk humbly with our God:God also cares about how we relate to him, especially in our attitude and obedience. He wants us to walk humbly with him, acknowledging his sovereignty, wisdom, and grace in our lives. Walking humbly with God means not only avoiding pride, arrogance, or self-reliance, but also actively seeking to know him, trust him, and follow him. For example, we can walk humbly with God by reading and studying his word; by praying and listening to his voice; by worshiping and praising him; and by obeying and submitting to his will.

Micah’s requirements are very similar to what Jesus said when he was asked about the greatest commandment in the law. Jesus said, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.” (Matthew 22:37-40) Jesus was summarizing what God had always wanted from his people: to love him with their whole being, and to love others as themselves. This is the essence of what it means to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with God. But how do we love God and our neighbor in this way? How do we show our love in our actions and attitudes? How do we fulfill these two great commandments in our daily lives? In the next section, we will look at some practical ways that we can express our love for God and for others, and how doing so will bring us joy and peace.*

What does the Lord require of you? To do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God. This is what Micah said to the people of Israel thousands of years ago, but it is still relevant and applicable for us today. This is what God wants from us as his children and his followers. Jesus echos Micah when he summarizes the law and the prophets with “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul and with all your mind……You shall love your neighbor as yourself”. This is what it means to live a life that pleases him and honors him. How are you doing justice, loving kindness, and walking humbly with God in your life? How are you loving God and others? What are some ways that you can grow in these areas?

YOU ARE WELCOME

It was good to be back at work, church, today. As it was the fifth Sunday of the month I did not preach, but we had some amazing music for our Pies and Praise. I’m looking forward to kicking off our short series on Jonah next Sunday, but before that we have Bible Study on Monday in the book of Proverbs and Wednesday night in the book of Revelation.

George Rousseau, who was a our lay reader and worship leader this morning, read this beautifully amazing welcome during worship this morning. I hope that we at the First Congregational Church of Belding, United Church of Christ, can embody this example of God’s divine love for all.

No matter who you are or where you are on life’s journey, you are welcome here: If you are young or old, you are welcome If you have brown skin, black skin, white skin, or any color of skin, you are welcome If you are married or single, you are welcome If you are gay or straight, you are welcome If you are transgender, you are welcome If you are a man or a woman, you are welcome If you cannot hear or see, you are welcome If you are sick or well, you are welcome If you are happy or sad, you are welcome If you are rich or poor, powerful or weak, you are welcome If you believe in God some of the time or none of the time or all of the time, you are welcome You are welcome here Come with your gifts, your pain, your hope, your fears Come with the traditions that have helped you and hurt you Come with your experiences that have made you and broken you Come with a mind, ready to engage, and a heart, open to discern Come and listen for the Sacred Spirit that calls you to love your neighbor wholeheartedly, seek justice, create peace and practice compassion You are welcome here!

• Adapted from a welcome by Gordon Brown, published in Shaping Sanctuary
• Photo from Pexels.com

REST, FOCUS AND VACATION

In our fast-paced and demanding world, it’s easy to forget the importance of rest and focus. Yet, as we turn to the Bible, we find profound wisdom that reminds us of these essential aspects of life. Recently, I had the privilege of taking my first full month break in 11 years, thanks to the unwavering support of our church’s Deacons and Trustees. This much-needed vacation allowed me to rediscover the power of rest and focus, both personally and for the future of our beloved church.

The Bible places significant emphasis on the value of rest. From the very beginning, in the creation poem God set the example of rest after creating the world in six days, sanctifying the seventh day as the Sabbath (Genesis 2:2-3). In Exodus 20:8-10, the fourth commandment reiterates the importance of observing the Sabbath as a day of rest and worship. Psalm 127:2 reminds us, “It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep.” This verse highlights the futility of overworking ourselves and the blessing of rest that God provides.

Alongside rest, the Bible encourages us to maintain focus on what truly matters. Proverbs 4:25 advises, “Let your eyes look directly forward, and your gaze be straight before you.” This verse encourages us to keep our eyes fixed on our goals and the path God has set before us. In Philippians 3:13-14, the Apostle Paul writes, “But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.” This powerful message urges us to let go of distractions and focus on the future God has in store for us.

Having served the church for 11 years, the Deacons and Trustees graciously allowed me to embark on a month-long vacation. During this time of rest and rejuvenation, I was able to disconnect from the daily responsibilities of ministry and find rest and restoration in the presence of God and my family. During tranquil moments, I spent time reflecting on the scriptures and praying for guidance for both my personal life and the future of our congregation. This period of introspection allowed me to rediscover my passion for ministry and gain a renewed sense of purpose.

I am immensely grateful to the Deacons and Trustees for their understanding and support in granting me this extended break. Their recognition of the importance of rest and focus has not only benefited me but will undoubtedly impact the church in the long run. I would also like to thanks Pastor Byron Davey, Dayna Neff, Harmony Quartet, Dan Marsalese, Valarie Peacock, George Rousseau and everyone else who made Sunday mornings flow this last month.

As I return to the pulpit, I do so with a heart full of gratitude and a more clear vision for the future of our church. With God’s guidance and the lessons learned from this vacation, I am committed to leading our congregation with renewed vigor, unwavering focus, and deep spiritual insight.

Rest and focus are not merely secular concepts but essential principles deeply rooted in the Bible. My recent vacation has served as a testament to the transformative power of rest and the clarity that comes with focused reflection. I extend my heartfelt appreciation to the Deacons and Trustees for their unwavering support, and I eagerly anticipate a bright and purposeful future for both myself and the church as we continue to seek God’s will together.